Especially after 60: Who should an older person
Reaching older age is framed not as an end, but as “a turning point” where one major decision can shape dignity, identity, and emotional health.
The article stresses that choosing “where and with whom to live” determines whether a person continues to live fully or merely exists.
Traditionally, aging meant moving into a child’s home, but this often comes at the cost of independence. Aging well today, the article argues,
is about protecting autonomy and selfhood. “Living independently, when health allows, is one of the strongest foundations of healthy aging.”
Autonomy, it emphasizes, “does not mean loneliness; it means freedom,” allowing older adults to maintain routines, purpose, and mental engagement.
When a home becomes too demanding, downsizing or adapting the space can preserve independence. Moving in with children too early may strain relationships,
turning an older adult into “a permanent guest rather than an equal presence.” Alternatives like living with peers balance companionship and independence,
supporting the idea that “aging with dignity means choosing an environment that supports freedom, safety, and emotional well-being.”
