Keeping Ashes at Home: What You Should
Keeping Ashes at Home: A Personal Choice
Losing a loved one leaves a deep void, and for many, keeping their ashes nearby offers comfort and connection.
As cremation grows more common in the U.S., families often wonder whether keeping ashes at home is appropriate —
and the answer depends on faith, values, and emotional needs.
Faith and Tradition
Spiritist beliefs caution that “holding on to ashes too tightly might affect the spirit’s ability to move forward,”
suggesting they be returned to nature or sacred spaces.
Christianity also values the body; while cremation is accepted, ashes are usually kept in consecrated places.
Healing and Comfort
Grief counselors stress that personal peace matters most.
If an urn brings comfort, it’s acceptable — but if it deepens sorrow,
other tributes like gardens or photo albums may help healing.
Practical Considerations
Quality urns, legal rules, and family wishes should guide decisions.
Ultimately, honoring love — not fear — defines the right choice.
