stood in the kitchen, gripping the edge of the counter, my husband’s words echoing in my mind.
She will eat our food and use our electricity. It’s not a hotel.”
I had expected hesitation, maybe even a discussion about space and privacy. But rent? Demanding that my mother—who had spent years sacrificing for me—pay rent to live in our home? It felt like a betrayal.
“This is her home too,” I shot back, my voice shaking.
My husband sighed, rubbing his temples. “I’m not saying she’s unwelcome. But she’s an adult. She should contribute.”
“She doesn’t have much, you know that,” I said, trying to keep my voice calm. “And she’s not just anyone—she’s my mother.”
“She’s your mother,” he corrected. “Not mine.”
His words hit harder than I expected.
A Silent Standoff
For the rest of the evening, we barely spoke. The house felt colder, heavier. My husband went to bed early, leaving me alone with my thoughts.
I sat at the dining table, staring at my phone, my mother’s number on the screen. How was I supposed to tell her?
She had always been independent, always managed on her own. But after my father passed and her health declined, things changed. She needed help, and I wanted her close. I never imagined my husband wouldn’t see it the same way.
I took a deep breath and dialed.
“Sweetheart,” she answered, her voice warm and familiar. “Everything okay?”
I swallowed the lump in my throat. “Mom, I want you to move in with us.”
Silence. Then, a hesitant, “Are you sure?”
I nodded, even though she couldn’t see me. “Yes. I want you here.”
She exhaled softly. “I don’t want to be a burden.”
“You won’t be.”