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What Is Nebulasexuality?
Nebulasexual is a newer identity used mostly by neurodivergent people—
such as those with autism, ADHD, or OCD—who find it hard to define or recognize their sexual attraction.
The name reflects the “clouded” or unclear feelings they experience.
Attraction Through a Different Lens
For some, attraction is difficult to sort: Is it sexual, aesthetic, or just a hyperfixation?
As one ADHD user shared, “No clue.”
Another added that intrusive thoughts blur what’s genuine and what’s brain-driven.
Definition and Context
Nebulasexual falls under the quoisexual umbrella.
Autism Nottingham describes it as not knowing whether one experiences attraction due to neurodivergency or intrusive thoughts.
People may still want relationships or sex, but uncertainty remains.
Community Reactions
While critics dismiss it, many find relief in the label.
“At least I can understand this part of myself,” said one autistic user.
